Men focus so much on snagging that first date with a cute girl that sometimes they find they are utterly and completely at a loss when the second meeting rolls around, says Professional Dating Coach Bobby Rio in his new report on second date tips.
"Too many guys focus on getting on base, when they really need to be looking at how to win the game," Rio said. "By taking a longer view of what is involved in dating, guys have a better chance of preparing and setting up for a second date long before they are arranging that meeting."
In other words, the prep work for a second date should be done way before a guy is kissing a girl goodnight on that first meeting, Rio says in his report on second date tips (http://www.tsbmag.com/second-date-tips).
"The most successful single guys actually have a sort of vague blueprint that they follow in most dating situations," Rio said. "This is a great way to tackle uncertainty in the dating world."
For instance, Rio explains in his report on second date tips, some guys have a whole routine they apply for that first date that then helps them segue way seamlessly into the second date.
"One strategy that has worked for hundreds of guys is using that first date as a way to build comfort and attraction mainly by meeting in a public place and getting to know one another," Rio says. "During that date, the guy would be wise to strike up a conversation about what the girl likes to eat and then mention that the next time they get together, he'll fix something for her at his house."
There are a few reasons why this is a perfect second date scenario, Rio explains in his report on second date tips.
"Sometimes there is not enough comfort or attraction to arrange a meeting at the guy's house, but on the second date, the time is ripe," Rio says. "This also accomplishes several key things in dating. For instance, by having a girl over to his house for dinner, the guy is straight up avoiding the friend zone without coming out and saying this. It also is a great environment to initiate some physical intimacy, which is another way to sure-footedly avoid the friend zone."
These ideas, which are tried-and-true techniques for thousands of men around the world, are just a few of the second date tips that Rio outlines in his new report.
"While spontaneity is often a great thing, sometimes having a blueprint on how to proceed - even if there is a small deviation from it - is still the smartest way to navigate the dating world," Rio says.
Bobby Rio is a professional dating coach and creator of products such as Make Small Talk Sexy, Magnetic Messaging, and The Confidence Blueprint. He is also the editor and chief of TSB Magazine, a leading men's online publication.
Learn more here: http://www.tsbmag.com/second-date-tips/
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