Anything worth doing is worth doing well. Practice makes perfect. Winning isn't everything, it's the only thing. Failure is not an option. In today's perfection-obsessed culture, these are the maxims we live by. Yet the damage they cause can be stifling. Renowned author and expert in the field of relationships and personal growth, Ann W. Smith, author of Overcoming Perfectionism: Finding the Key to Balance & Self-Acceptance (HCI Books-- $14.95) knows this first hand. Smith has dealt with her fair share of perfectionism and has bared witness to this all too common phenomenon in her professional life, having spent the last thirty years addressing the impact that compulsive patterns have on individuals and family. While perfectionism lacks much of the stigma attached to today's most common compulsions-smoking, gambling, sex addiction, alcoholism, and drug abuse-many of the negative consequences on self and the family system are the same.
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