BroadwayWorld.com Logo
TwitterFacebookGoogle PlusRSS Feeds
 
 
LOG IN | REGISTER NOW!

TICKET CENTRAL
Broadway
Off-Bway
Tours
London
Help, Pick Me a Show
BWW TODAY
Latest News
CDs/Books/DVDs
Grosses 5/20 
Photos
Reviews
TV/Video
Web Radio
MESSAGE BOARDS
Broadway 
West End 
 Off-topic 
 Student 
FEATURES
'12 BWW Awards *vote*
Auditions - Equity
Auditions - Non Equity
Books Database
BWW Junior
Classifieds
College Center
High School Center
Tony Awards *new*
Upcoming CDs
Videos Database
CITY GUIDE
Event Calendar
NYC Guide
Hotel Finder
Restaurant Guide
BROADWAY EXTRAS
Cabaret
Classroom / Education
Photo IQ
Twitter Watch
Your Settings
GO MOBILE WITH BWW
iPhone, Android, iPad & More
CLICK HERE!
BWW TODAY
Advertising Info
Contact Us
Forgot Login?
Logo Archive
Merchandise
RSS/XML Feeds
Submit News
SPONSORED LINKS
Broadway Tickets
Wicked Tickets
Lion King Tickets
Mamma Mia Tickets
Book of Mormon Tickets
Jersey Boys Tickets
Spider-Man Tickets
Ghost the Musical Tickets
Jesus Christ Superstar Tickets
Evita Tickets

VP's BLOG: Curb Your Emotional Spew

 

VPs_BLOG_What_Am_I_Doing_Wrong_20010101

BroadwayWorld.com is excited to introduce its newest blogger - VP Boyle!

VP BOYLE is one of the most sought after Broadway audition and life coaches for professionals in New York City and works with actors at every level across the country to spread his irreverent approach to theatrical wellness. VP currently serves as the creator and Chair of the New York Film Academy's new cutting-edge Musical Theatre & Film Conservatory Program. The two-year program merges conservatory musical theatre training with Broadway professionals and an intensive acting on film curriculum that culminates with an original movie musical film project.

Check out a quick introduction video to the program by clicking HERE.

You can also download a flyer with some featured faculty by clicking HERE.

Talent auditions are being held in New York City with an exclusive workshop for applicants on Saturday, August 21st. To register and learn more about how to participate in this workshop, click HERE.

There are a few things in life that really incite me to rage. Littering, lame passive/aggressive communication, condescension and piss-poor-customer-service-by-people-who-recite-scripts-and-do-not-use-the-gray-matter-located-in-their-skulls. Can you tell I'm serious?

Breathe in. Breathe out.

All jokes aside, we all have our pressure points that are ego-driven and push us into "the unfortunate place." When that occurs, we can become completely ineffective and self-absorbed. If you haven't reached the level of Ghandi yet in this lifetime, I invite you to my "48 Hour Rule" of processing emotionally-charged information and situations. This technique works great with bosses, lovers, co-workers, stage managers and MTA booth attendants.

It's simple: Wait 48 hours and see how you feel.

No joke, that's it. Get through two full days with the clear intention of tabling whatever topic is making you insane until that time. Particularly if you are one of those folks that talks incessantly about your latest audition drama or why everyone has it better than you. Blech. If you find yourself constantly in "crisis-mode" or "drama-central" than you have to implement a strategy to step back from your chaos and gain some subjective stance on your worldview. If you are still in a tizzy about something after 48 hours, deal with it through proper channels: direct communication. NOT email, text messages and voicemail. Be a grownup and navigate your hotspots. Communication is getting more and more difficult with every technological advance and there is a definite trend towards cowardice and being small. If you want to show up to yourself and others, you will have to learn sooner or later how to be a better communicator. The best communicators ask LOTS of questions and leave the emotional spew aside. It's not easy and it takes practice. Your longest relationships may be the hardest in this arena because of historical patterns, but you can change them or decide whether or not they are worth your energy. Next time you are feeling yourself in the flushed-face-space, give yourself 48 hours to see if it really is worth the life force you are spending on the topic.

 

Leave Comments


8 DAYS TO GO - VOTING IS OPEN - CLICK HERE TO VOTE NOW!
LIVE UPDATE: NEWSIES, PETER AND THE STARCATCHER, GODSPELL & WICKED Are in the Lead...


VP BOYLE is one of the most sought after Broadway audition and life coaches for professionals in New York City and works with actors at every level across the country to spread his irreverent approach to theatrical wellness. He wears many hats in the Broadway community (director, casting director, actor, writer, producer) and is most known in the theatrical casting world for creating The Musical Theatre Forum, a professional casting workshop with every major Broadway casting agency in NYC. VP currently serves as the creator and Chair of the New York Film Academy's new cutting-edge Musical Theatre & Film Conservatory Program. The two-year program merges conservatory musical theatre training with Broadway professionals and an intensive acting on film curriculum that culminates with an original movie musical film project. His book, AUDITION FREEDOM: The Irreverent Wellness Guide for Theatre People is availalbe at Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble and Drama Book Shop NYC. He directed the sold-out An Evening with Frank Wildhorn and Friends at Studio 54 featuring Linda Eder, Douglas Sills, Frank Wildhorn and others. He also directed the critically acclaimed presentation of The Normal Heart at Lincoln Center. He spent two years as the Producing Director for The Musical Writers' Playground and as a casting director with Dave Clemmons Casting casting Broadway shows, tours, and original workshops. He is currently the casting director for Mason Street Warehouse and teaches audition workshops from coast to coast. As an actor, his favorite moments on the boards include The Scarlet Pimpernel with Douglas Sills and Sunset Boulevard with Diahann Carroll. He is the screenwriter/lyricist for Walk Away, with Sharon Kenny and is currently at work on a new pop/rock musical with Joe O'Keefe, The Tunnel, based on the Mole People—the underground homeless living in NYC's abandoned subway tunnels. Outside of the zany world of show biz, VP is an amateur potter, librettist/lyricist, closet photographer and self-proclaimed man of leisure with more professional union cards and guild affiliations than any one person should really have. Member: AEA, CAEA, SAG, AFTRA, SSDC, ASCAP, The Dramatists' Guild.
Past Articles by This Author:
BWW's 2012 Tony Guide - News, Vids &
All You Need to Know!

NICE WORK IF YOU CAN GET IT
Save 40%
NICE WORK IF YOU CAN GET IT
Tix Only $55!
Click Here to Register for More Special Offers!
Laura Bell Bundy
6
Sister Act tour?
27
Katie Finneran is Broadways new Hannigan
91
Sit-downs in LA and Chicago
43
"He supports you, for he loves you..." - Compare t...
19

Robert Diamond's Blog BWW Awards Update 5/25 - 9 Days to Go!

2012 Awards Season Scorecard

Michael Dale's Broadway Blog
Judge Me Paris
BroadwayGirl NYC Blog
Punny Tony Awards Menu
Roundabout Theater Company Blog
A Conversation with Scott Ellis
Old Jews Telling Jokes Blog
'Better Blogging' from YOUNG JEWS BLOGGING
Sound Off Broadway Blog
SOUND OFF: GLEE's Graduates Say Goodbye

Submission's Only on BWW BWW TV: SUBMISSIONS ONLY Season 2 Wraps with an All-Star Cast in 'Another Interruption' Finale!
Chewing the Scenery with Randy Rainbow

CHEWING THE SCENERY with
RANDY RAINBOW
Backstage with Richard RidgeBWW TV EXCLUSIVE: Brian d'Arcy James Uncut Part 1: Talks SMASH, Industrials, NYC Concert & More!
sierra_boggess - Yes, this is my first time watching Eurovision. I...more...
Now Playing:
Now Playing on Broadway Web Radio Why Does Our House Have A Basement from Caroline, Or Change on 2004 Original Broadway Cast - Act II.

Saturday Roundup: This Week on BroadwayWorld

Jay-Z to Head ANNIE Film Soundtrack

Photo Flash: Memorial Day Weekend Saturday Intermission Pics - NEWSIES, JERSEY BOYS, West End's THE 39 STEPS and More!

STAGE TUBE: Portland Actor Isaac Lamb's 'Lip-Dub' Marriage Proposal Goes Viral

Amy Adams Says Broadway Transfer of INTO THE WOODS Would 'Be Amazing'

STAGE TUBE: Ellen Helps Jim Parsons Prepare for Broadway's HARVEY!

STAGE TUBE: On This Day 5/26- Al Jolson

Photo Coverage: Casts of ANYTHING GOES, SISTER ACT, GHOST and More Perform for Fleet Week 2012!

FLASH: Andrew Lloyd Webber Writes The Music Of The NightFLASH: Andrew Lloyd Webber Writes The Music Of The Night
2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 10: RENT Owns2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 10: RENT Owns
2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 15: Tommy Tune At The Tonys2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 15: Tommy Tune At The Tonys
2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 13: Lin-Manuel Miranda & IN THE HEIGHTS2012 Tony Countdown - Day 13: Lin-Manuel Miranda & IN THE HEIGHTS
2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 8: Elton John & Tim Rice's AIDA2012 Tony Awards Clip Countdown - Day 8: Elton John & Tim Rice's AIDA

JULIE ANDREWS BIG FISH WEST SIDE STORY FLASH SPECIAL GHOST: THE MUSICAL more...

MORE: CABARET | OFF-BROADWAY | OFF-OFF BROADWAY | BOOKS | CELEBRITY | CLASSICAL MUSIC | COMEDY
CONCERTS | DANCE | FASHION | MOVIES | MUSIC | OPERA | REALITY TV | TV | VISUAL ARTS

Contact us.All Materials Copyright 2012 Wisdom Digital Media.

Privacy Policy.